他和Lucy被他收留的女人抛弃了 他抱着孩子在街边的无奈 one way的路牌
却暗示着这他们父女俩的无处可去 他想给女儿买双鞋 但是却缺了10多美元
他说 I tried，I tried hard! But you don’t know what it’s like when you
try and you try and you try and you don’t ever get there. Because you
were born perfect, and I was born like this! And people like you don’t
know, you don’t know what it’s like to get hurted , because you don’t
have feelings. People like you don’t feel anything. 那般的歇斯底里
男主在律师家时好好地教育了律师一番：You’re so lucky.You get to play with
Willy any time you want.He doesn’t want to play with me.Yes,he
does.Yes,he does.He does.He thinks you don’t want to play,maybe.That’s
ridiculous.Of course I
I tried! I tried hard! You don’t know what it’s like when you try…and
you try and you try and you don’t ever get there! Because you were born
perfect,and I was born like this! People like you don’t know what it’s
like to get hurted…because yo don’t have
最后律师说：I worry that I’ve gotten more out of this relationship than
Now I can see those kind eyes.
Vice President for Retail at
Sam:Yeah, but I tried! I tried hard!
Sam:Yeah, but you don’t know!
You don’t know what it’s like when you try and you try and you try and
you don’t ever get there!
Because you were born perfect, and I was born like this! And you’re
Rita:Is that right?
Sam:You don’t know what it’s like to get hurted.. because you don’t have
feelings. People like you don’t feel anything.
Rita:You think you got the market cornered on human suffering?
Let me tell you something about people like me.
People like me feel lost and little and ugly.. and dispensable.
People like me have husbands..screwing someone else far more perfect
People like me have sons who hate them.
And I’ve screamed horrible things to him..a seven-year-old, because he
doesn’t want..to get in the car at the end of the day.
And then he looks at me with such anger..and i hate him then.
I know I’m failing you. I know I’m disappointing you. I know you
deserver better, but get in the fucking car!
Every morning, I wake up and i fail. And I look around, and everybody
seems to be pulling it off..but somehow I can’t..no matter how hard I
Somehow..I’ll never be enough.
Sam:You’re enough. Yeah, you’re much more than enough.Lovely Rita.
- lead by example以身作则
1.Tell them what you’re going to tell them.→2.Tell them.→3.Tell them
what you’ve told them.
Everybody behave Like a gentleman..because Lucy's gonna come out here..and first impressions are very important. Lucy:You never even came! You never called! You forgot about me! How coule you forget me? Sam:No, I didn't forget you! I would never forget you! -I hate you! Sam:Will you not be mad at me for one second? Because I want to tell you one thing, OK? "P.s. I love you, like in the song"
SUGGESTION Ⅰ：always be present
I have always tried to be present for you regardless of how old you
were, where we were, or where I was. I wanted you to know that I am
always there for you spiritually, emotionally and digitally. You never
need feel** isolated** or alone. You know I am on 24/7 for advice,
love, or just to share a funny filtered photo, bitmoji or laugh
(even though I know I laugh inside).
Being fully present, by listening, feeling, empathizing—always
holding serious eye contact, and often the touch of a hand—builds
trust. Trust builds confidence and confidence enables you to look
forward, dream more and focus on others vs. yourself. Being present is
the greatest gift you can give another person, and the greatest way to
more closely connect with them. When you are present, you are living
in the moment vs in your mind. You are seeing, hearing, and feeling
another person, and together you are even more empowered to do great
things. This is a gift that often comes more naturally to women.
- navigate [‘nævɪgeɪt]驾驶：~your incredible life journey.
- isolated [‘aɪsəleɪtɪd]隔离的
Sam:But you still need to leave your husband.
Rita: My marriage isn’t so bad.
It’t just that..I’ve never lost at anything.
SUGGESTION Ⅱ：read the signs
I have also tried to share with you as many of life’s precious lessons
and secrets as I can so that when I am not here, you have a solid
foundation of learnings and values regardless of what potholes
in life you may hit along the way. Stay open; always try to read
the signs as you pass by them or they pass by you. I’ve often reminded
you that there are no coincidences. Everything that happens in
your life is for a reason or was predestined. Every book you receive,
every new person you meet, everything you call lucky is a sign just
waiting to be read. It is** tough** when you are young and so**
inward-focused, but once in a while you will look back, make the
connection and then be more open to and curious about those signs
in the future. You see, signs aren’t blatant or obvious. You have
to be open and present to instinctively feel them. You are blessed
as sensitive** women to more naturally understand this.
- solid foundation [‘sɒlɪd]固体的，坚固的基础
- potholes [‘pɒthəʊl]坑
- along the way一路上
- curious[‘kjʊərɪəs] obvious[‘ɒbvɪəs]
It's number nine. And number nine is like October 9..when John Lennon was born and his son was born on October 9, too. John met Yoko on November 9. Yeah, and his mother lived..at number nine Newcastle in Liverpool. Newcastle, nine letters. Liverpool, nine letters.
SUGGESTION Ⅲ：stay in your lane
You are fully aware of how blessed you are, the incredible gifts
you were born with that your brother doesn’t have and the gifts he has
that you don’t possess. You know how happy you feel when you are
doing what you love and that comes so easily and naturally to you. So
please, please, please connect to your passion, and then just stay
in your lane. Great athletes, musicians, scientists, etc., all
have anexpertise that they focus on and perfect.
Don’t let anyone persuade you to do anything that doesn’t feel
natural or isn’t aligned with your values or God-given gifts. You know
what excites you more than anyone else. The sooner you recognize
your passions, and the more you focus, the happier you will be and the
greater success you will achieve. Still, don’t worry if you don’t
know exactly what your lane is yet. The path will illuminate
itself so long as you stay present, open to the signs, and follow your
passions. It’s all related.
- be aware of意识到[ə’weə]
- stay in your lane车道[leɪn]
- excite刺激[ɪk’saɪt; ek-]
- etc.[ɪt’setərə, et-]
Sometimes if you rub her belly..and then if you tell her two
stories..and give her half an IHOP corn muffin..then sometimes she
SUGGESTION Ⅳ：never back up more than you have to
Lastly, my loves, never back up more than you need to, and this means
in life, not just when driving. Just as you are blind to what’s
behind you while backing up a car, if you keep looking back in life
and focusing too much on the past, you may find yourself running
things over and over in your mind, often seeing or creating things
that never existed in the first place. Even worse, living in reverse
blinds you to what lies ahead: Your lifelong dreams waiting to be
achieved, your destiny waiting to be fulfilled.
祝愿每一个想成为better me 的人都可以成为better me！
I have to apologize to you..Sam because I was gonna tell that
judge..that I could give Lucy the kind of love she never had.
Sam:I hope you’re saying what I think you’re saying.
I think you’re the red in her painting.
Rita: Now, Ms. Cossell, in all the time that you’ve known them, have you
ever questioned Sam’s ability as a father?
Annie: Never. Look at Lucy. She’s strong. She displays true empathy
for people, all kinds of people. I know that you all think she’s as
smart as she is despite him, but it’s because of him.
Rita: So what you’re saying is you don’t worry about Lucy’s
Annie: No, I do.
Annie: I worry all the time. I worry if they take Lucy away from her
father they will take away an enormous piece of her, and I worry that
she will spend the rest of her life trying to fill that hole.
Sam: OK, remember when Paul McCartney wrote the song “Michelle” and then
he only wrote the first part, Annie said. And then he gave that part to
John Lennon, and he wrote the part that said, “I love you, I love you, I
love you.” And Annie said that it wouldn’t have been the same song
without that… and that’s why the whole world cried when the Beatles
broke up on April 10, 1970.